Self Help - Image (For Her)
 
Interested In Looking Better?
 
Taking care of you:
Need the right wardrobe to enhance your look:
Sharp & youthful:
Casual, Confortable and Sporty:
Hard to Fit & Elegant:
Beach & Sportwear:
Accessories:
Diamonds are a girls best friend & more:
Eyewear:
Shoes:
Underwear:
Intimate Wear:
Catalog Shopping:
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Women's image, apparel, garments, clothes, clothing, dresswear, accessories, online shopping for your ease and convinience.Online shopping for women's apparel, everyday garments and clothes, sports clothing, evening dresswear and accessories has never been easier.. Improve your image for the best by changing the way you look. A good first impression is very important. It determines how people perceive you and sets the expectation as to what type of person you are. Making a good first impression can get you off to a good start, whether it’s with new coworkers, your new boss, or new relationships. The image you project influences the respect and attention you receive from others. Your image or the impression you make on other people can be broken down into 3 basic concepts. The impression you make on other people is comprised of how you look, what you wear, and how you conduct yourself. Neglecting these 3 basic aspects of image can cause you to loose important opportunities and rob you of your full potential.

We have assembled information and sources that you can use to improve and achieve a better image of yourself. Click on the underlined topics on the left and you will be sent to that subject. Click on the Back to top button in any section to return to the top of the page for another selection.

Taking Care of you:

One of the first things that people see and notice is your face and indirectly, your skin. Second, is your physical shape. Healthy looking skin and a healthy physique makes you attractive. Exercise, eating well and getting sufficient rest is key to having good skin tone and a shapely body. Getting too much sun and exposure to the elements can damage your skin. It takes time to overcome skin damage caused by the sun. If you are not already using skin protection, start doing so. Use sunscreen lotions with an SPF of 15 for normal exposure or higher if you are an outdoor enthusiast. Remember, you can get sunburn on cloudy and rainy days too. The burn is more subtle and you may not think you will burn, but the sun’s rays do come through. For those in southern climates this is a must. For those in northern climates, the temperature is cooler and you will not notice the effect of a sunburn until the damage is done.

 
Fortunately, there are skin lotions you can purchase that help moisturize and protect your skin while protecting you from the damaging rays of the sun. We recommend online shopping the wide variety of Natural Skin Care Products found at the SkinStore. You will find products like skin restorers, microdermabrasion scrubs and kits, moisturizers and creams that will get your skin looking it’s best. Some cosmetics offer varying degrees of a sun protection too.

Look you best.
For your everyday cosmetic needs see the CosmeticMall. It offers a wide variety of cosmetics along with products for sun care, bath & beauty, fashionable accents, perfumes and appliances such as shavers, trimmers, and hair dryers. Try their Virtual Makeover, which helps you determine what colors and shades are right for your skin type.

For skin care products.

For products you find in Spa salons and are good for your entire body along with bath accents, be sure to visit DERMAdoctor. They offer a very wide variety of excellent skin care products including products from the Dead Sea and many helpful bath products that will improve and revitalize your skin. People travel very far to bathe in the Dead Sea. The Dead Sea is landlocked in a valley between Israel and Jordan. It has a very high concentration of salts and minerals that are well known to help promote the healing of blemishes and improve those that suffer from many skin ailments including psoriasis. Now you can receive the same benefits in the comfort of your own home.

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Need the right wardrobe to enhance your look:

Are you looking for something nice to wear but don’t have the time to go to the mall or are you looking for something different from what you normally find at the local mall or department store? We have sorted through many companies to find well known reasonably priced on line stores that you can purchase items in the comfort of your own home or office.

Sharp & youthful:

Delias is an American global brand that reflects a lifestyle that is current and relevant. They have women's clothing with a youthful attitude and energy. See what they have to offer for office or causal look. You will find over 100 new classic and seasonal styles in bright colors and lightweight fabrics for your comfort and performance.

You have heard about them or have heard others talk about them. Fredricks of Hollywood has a very beautiful selection of summer dresses and long evening dresses that will bring out your best features at reasonable prices. See there and accessory line for women. While your there check out what they are best known for, their nightwear it will bring out the best in you.

Coldwater Creek has items that have a wide-open flavor of the Rocky Mountains area, yet suits decidedly urban landscapes as well. Naturally inspired jewelry, some with echoes of Native America. Nature-related gifts that delight as well as inform. You will find unusual, high-quality products and women's garments with an emphasis on natural forms and unaffected ease.

Looking for well known brands that you are comfortable with and department stores you are familiar with? Check out women's apparel where you can shop at your own convenience at not only Target but Marshell Field's and Mervyns too.

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Casual, Confortable and Sporty:

For causal year-round attire that are confortable, durable and stylish visit Eddie Bauer. Whether you are looking for something to wear around town or a night out with friends, you will find something that will make you feel comfortable and relaxed.

Looking for outdoor clothes that fit good, are comfortable and practical. See Sierra Trading Post for a great selection of attire, boots, jackets, sweaters, exercising outfits, ski wear, and sports gear.

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Hard to Fit & Elegant:
Elisabeth by Liz Claiborne line offers a distinctive collection of fashions for the fuller figured women and incorporates the same quality, versatility, value and fit that are hallmarks of the Liz Claiborne signature. At Liz Claiborne you will find an elegant selection of high quality attire, women's accessories , fragrances for all your needs. They also offer a fashion forecast so you can preview upcoming styles. They have a greater assortment of colors and sizes on line than what is displayed in their stores and you can shop at your convenience and leisure.

For an excellent selection and additions to your wardrobe that look great in plus sizes visit Avenue. Visit them and save time by selecting what type of outfit or event you plan to attend or from their extensive catalog selection. Their selection is modern and offers a beautiful & classy line of dresswear, casual wear, sexy swimsuits, lingerie, and much more.

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Accessories:

Diamonds are a girls best friend & more:

For beautiful and elegant jewelry that will make you stand out or fit in, you should visit two sources that we have found to have the best selection. You can choose from reasonable priced items that will accent your wardrobe and enhance the way you look and feel. What ever fits your fancy, you will find it at JewelryWeb and ICE : Jewelry for Everyday

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Beach & Sportswear:

For a unique line of sportswear see Cooltan Tan-Through Swimwear. Cooltan sportswear allows you to tan through the material you wear providing an equivalent SPF of 6. You can achieve a tan with no tan lines and get a tan while you play your favorite sport. They offer a wide selection of beautiful patterns to choose from at very reasonable prices. The material used is constructed from a patented fabric woven with thousands of tiny pores, which allow the sun to penetrate while providing SPF 6 protection. This unique fabric allows the skin to "breathe" and tan through the suit, but is guaranteed not to be see-through when worn wet or dry. For a wide selection of tops, bottoms, loungewear, swimwear, underwear and outerwear in plus size visit Junonia.

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Eyewear:

For sunglasses and eyewear that look and feel cool, Search through the complete Unitedshades catalog They have an extensive selection of high quality name brand eyewear from all over the world and from a wide variety of brand names.

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Shoes:

Need new shoes to match the new outfit? For a great selection of shoes and many different brand names to choose from try Zappos Shoes Advanced Search. You can sort through their vast selection by brand name, size or type of shoes that interest you. They offer a very large variety of footwear and fashionable accents for all occasions.

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Underwear:

Bare Necessities offer a great variety and selection of name brands that you are already familiar with and some you may not be. Search through their extensive catalog and see how much time you will can save.

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Intimate Wear:

If you want to change your look in private and have fun with it, visit Henry and June or Fredricks of Hollywood Both offer sexy lingerie that is sure to make you feel sensual and excite your partner. Are you hard to fit, both offer petite and Plus sizes.

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Catalog Shopping:

If you like to keep up with the latest trends and would like to skip the Malls, then see what catalogs have to offer. Get your free catalog from just about any merchant you can imagine at ShopAtHome. They offer a lot of free catalogs and fashion magazines at discounted subscription rates. Whether you are looking for something unique for a different look or just want to enhance your wardrobe with a few items to change your style, we think you will enjoy the selection.

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How you conduct yourself in different situations is important in improving way you come across to others. Having confidence in yourself is key. To be successful, you must not only learn techniques and create a positive look but also put what you learn into practice. We have found a few good resources for you to improve yourself and become more successful at all that you do. Below are just a few we recommend. They are available in new and used hardcover, paperback or audio tapes. We recommend audio tapes to make your commuting, yardwork or workout more productive. To see more book reviews visit our books page.

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  Improving Your State of Mind.
  Improving Yourself.
  Understanding Your Body.
  Improving Relationships.
  After the Breakup.

Improving Your State of Mind:

How to Stop Worrying and Start Living [ABRIDGED], by Dale Carnegie

Dale Carnegie shows you well tested techniques that have worked for many people around the world in every walk of life. He offers practical formulas that can be put to work immediately in your day-to-day life. This book has sold over 6 million copies in 36 languages around the world. If offers a practical way of teaching you how to overcome worry and allow yourself to live life.

The Power of Positive Thinking, by Norman Vincent Peale

Norman Vincent Peale helps you in eliminating all the negative thoughts that prevent you from achieving happiness and success. It is inspiring and will help you create a positive change in your life. You will learn how to eliminate self doubt, free yourself from worry, stress and resentment, climb above problems to visualize solutions and then attain them. You will find simple exercises you can do every day, throughout the day that will reinforce your newfound habit of happiness.

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Improving Yourself:

In this book Covey takes you through a "paradigm shift", acting with initiative rather than reacting to what life offers you. "Covey takes you through this change, which affects how you perceive and act regarding productivity, time management, positive thinking, developing your "proactive muscles", and much more".

Dale Carnegie shows you ways to get along with and influence people in your everyday, business and social contacts. This book is recommended reading for the Dale Carnegie coarse on Effective Speaking and Human relations. It’s topics cover, fundamental ways in dealing with people, how to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking and be a leader.

Quick And Easy Way To Effective Speaking, by Dale Carnegie.

Here Dale Carnegie helps you improve your communications skills. He helps you sort through your thoughts and nervousness, which helps you clearly communicate your thoughts and desires. He helps you get over your fears and insecurities when speaking to individuals or groups.

Understanding Yourself and Others, by Bill Riedler.

The information in this book will increase your courage and self-confidence. It will help you recognize people’s true intentions, even before they do and helps you build a reputation as a conflict solver. It helps you find meaningful relationships, gain more satisfaction out of life, gain control over your emotions and understand your dreams.

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Understanding Your Body:

For Women Only: A Revolutionary Guide to Overcoming Sexual Dysfunction and Reclaiming Your Sex Life, by Jennifer Berman MD, Laura, Ph.D. Berman, Elisabeth Bumiller (Contributor).
You may have seen both Berman Mother and Daughter on their own late night TV show. They both deal with a broad variety of women’s issues. Their explanations are both understandable, practical and cut to the root of the problems. If you like their TV program, you will like their straight forward approach and presentation of female sexuality.

"Mars and Venus in the Bedroom provides both men and women with specific instructions on how their new relationship skills can be used to improve their sex lives. Written with the understanding and unique insight that can come only from John Gray, it shows couples how they can become sexually satisfied without frustrating their partners, be better lovers, keep their monogamous relationship passionate, communicate their sexual needs romantically and get more pleasure out of sex."

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Improving Relationships:

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting What You Want in Your Relationships, by John Gray, Ph.D.

In this book, John Gray focuses on the differences between men and women. Couples must acknowledge and accept these differences before they can develop happier relationships. He gives a spirited delivery of his message, especially when role-playing typical male/female interactions. The information is sound and gives both men and women helpful hints on improving themselves and their union.

Mars and Venus on a Date: A Guide for Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving and Lasting Relationship , by John Gray, Ph.D.

"Going beyond the old rules, John Gray doesn't just tell you how to behave, he explains why. With compassion and understanding he takes you through the five stages of dating (attraction, uncertainty, exclusivity, intimacy, and engagement), provides inspired ideas on finding your soul mate and offers advice on creating a loving and mutually fulfilling relationship. If you're trying to find a date, debating whether to continue a relationship, or searching for commitment, Mars and Venus on a Date is your essential guide to successfully getting what you want".

Mars and Venus in the Workplace: A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting Results at Work, by John Gray, Ph.D.

Here, Gray covers a variety of typical on the job situations, from solving revenue problems to negotiating a raise. With his important points printed in bold type, plenty of prioritizing lists and straightforward examples, this is easy reading that allows you to focus on finding the solutions you seek, rather than wading through research terminology.

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After the Breakup:

Mars and Venus Starting Over: A Practical Guide for Finding Love Again After a Painful Breakup, Divorce, or the Loss of a Loved One, by John Gray, PhD

John Gray helps you get over the devastation and loneliness that comes with a breakup, divorce, or the loss of a loved one. He offers gentle guidance, compassionate wisdom, and healing practices that will help you feel whole again. With warmth and insight, he shows you the process of healing.

"Ellen's famous no-nonsense approach can help you if you're sick of all the phonies, if you're divorced and not sure how to start again, or if you're finally ready to move on from the dating scene to find someone you can care about. Stop wasting time on relationships that are going nowhere. No more spending days or weeks "dating" someone only to finally discover that he or she doesn't really share your values or interests. Ellen shows you how to be sure, before you ever go on the first date, that he or she is the kind of person you'd want to fall in love with. Single No More empowers you to take control you're your romantic destiny. From the basics to the deeply personal, this book is filled with the questions we ask and the answers we seek when looking for our perfect mate. "

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How you carry yourself in different situations is important in improving yourself. Having confidence in yourself is key. To be successful, you must not only learn techniques and create a positive look but also put what you learn into practice. We have found a few good resources for you to improve yourself and become more successful at all that you do. Below are just a few we recommend. They are available in new and used hardcover, paperback or audio tapes. We recommend audio tapes to make your commuting, housework or workout more productive.

For further information on improving yourself see our Relaxation and Exercise page under Self Help for improving yourself and your state of mind. You can also access this information from the pull down menu above.

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In today’s environment giving the right impression is critical to being successful. Someone’s initial perception of you is just as important as reality. Changing your look takes some thought and a little effort but it’s made easy with the right tools and resources. We have tried to find the best sources to save you time and money. If you feel it’s right for you, then do it, take the chance and make the change!

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