Men's
libido involves a mixture of intimacy, sex drive,
sexual desire, arousal, and fantasies. Male sexual
dysfunction can come about from many sources such
as medication, depression, stress of modern life,
lack of time and hormonal imbalances. Sexual experience
for men falls into two distinct categories. The first
is a natural function of procreation and the byproduct
is a release of tension, an overall sense of relaxation
and a proof of manhood. This is an instinctive form
that most of us remember from the years prior to truly
falling in love or settling down in a long-term relationship.
The second and more powerful category comes from making
love to the one you love. This is a much higher level
of satisfaction that is not reached by simply having
sex. To a man, this is a way to express his inner
most feelings towards the partner that he loves. This
is one of the few times that you lay down your guard
and allow your pleasure to come from, and intermingle
with, the pleasuring of another. Once having experienced
this higher pleasure, the inability to find this level
of satisfaction can lead to low perception of self-worth,
lack of confidence, which in and of itself, causes
doubt as to ones ability to perform and can cause
depression.
Avoiding the problem and accepting it as a natural
part of life or aging only adds to the problem in
the long run. The stress of work, marriage and kids,
medical conditions, hormonal changes or medication
are just some of the many reasons you may be experiencing
diminished desire and lack of arousal. Although most
men feel uncomfortable confiding with even their closest
friends, all men experience some problem during the
course of their life. Whether you are looking for
the pleasure you once had or just want to see if you
can achieve a higher level of satisfaction, there
are sources of information and products available
that can help. We have researched and found a few
good resources that offer you information and products
on the many ways to improve your pleasure.
Dr.Whitaker
is a great source of information on men’s health
and what can cause functional problems. He offers
information and products on ways to improve your
health and well-being. Shop
Dr. Whitaker online
for all your health needs from daily vitamin supplements,
weight control, exercise and heart health to other
health issues such as cholesterol, diabetes and
memory loss.
Virilityhealth
offers the greatest variety of enhancing products
we have found. They offer an easy-to-read product
description and explanation of the benefits you
can expect to receive from their products. Some
topics covered are, improving your love life,
diet and weight loss, prostate health, sleep,
body and muscle builders, stress reduction, herbal
supplements, hair treatments, slowing the aging
process, to name a few. See what they offer for
sexual enhancers on
Understanding the differences between men and women’s
natural instincts when it comes to needs and wants,
romance and intimacy, stimulation, and physical changes
over time is very important in improving your desire
and achieving satisfaction. Below are a few books
that we personally recommend and you may find helpful.
For a more effective use of your time we recommend
you purchase the audiocassette or CD of the books.
Audio books typically are a condensed version of the
original book and convey the information quicker.
You can listen during your daily commute, breaks or
workouts, which allows you to focus on the material
and be more productive. To see more book reviews visit
our
books page.
DivorceNavigator Favorites:
Find the topic you are interested in and click on
it. It will take you to the top of the book review
section for the topic. To return just click on the
"Go Back to Favorites" and you will return for your
next selection.
Dale Carnegie
shows you well tested techniques that have worked
for many people around the world in every walk
of life. He offers practical formulas that can
be put to work immediately in your day-to-day
life. This book has sold over 6 million copies
in 36 languages around the world. If offers a
practical way of teaching you how to overcome
worry and allow yourself to live life.
Norman
Vincent Peale helps you in eliminating all the
negative thoughts that prevent you from achieving
happiness and success. It is inspiring and will
help you create a positive change in your life.
You will learn how to eliminate self doubt, free
yourself from worry, stress and resentment, climb
above problems to visualize solutions and then
attain them. You will find simple exercises you
can do every day, throughout the day that will
reinforce your newfound habit of happiness.
If you
would like to learn more about sexuality and performance
problems we recommend you read or listen to the
audio tape of this book. Dr. Newman is an urologist
and gives easy to understand explanations on human
anatomy and performance related issues. He helps
you understand what causes functional problems
in men and women, how it has historically been
treated, how Viagra helps the problem for men,
when Viagra is not appropriate, and even how Viagra
affects females. Read about other treatment options:
implants, injections, herbal medicine, and more.
Mars and
Venus in the Bedroom provides both men and women
with specific instructions on how their new relationship
skills can be used to improve their love lives.
Written with the understanding and unique insight
that can come only from John Gray, it shows couples
how they can become sexually satisfied without
frustrating their partners, be better lovers,
keep their monogamous relationship passionate,
communicate their needs romantically and get more
pleasure.
In this
book, John Gray focuses on the differences between
men and women. Couples must acknowledge and accept
these differences before they can develop happier
relationships. He gives a spirited delivery of
his message, especially when role-playing typical
interactions. The information is sound and gives
both partners helpful hints on improving themselves
and their union.
"Going
beyond the old rules, John Gray doesn't just tell
you how to behave, he explains why. With compassion
and understanding he takes you through the five
stages of dating (attraction, uncertainty, exclusivity,
intimacy, and engagement), provides inspired ideas
on finding your soul mate and offers advice on
creating a loving and mutually fulfilling relationship.
If you're trying to find a date, debating whether
to continue a relationship, or searching for commitment,
Mars and Venus on a Date is your essential guide
to successfully getting what you want".
Here is
THE BOOK for a couple experiencing problems communicating
and expressing their feelings to one another.
"My lady and I have recently experienced
a painful breakup. I then purchased this book
and immediately saw some of the reasons why we
saw things differently and suffered a communication
breakdown. I wish I had read this book a year
ago! I could not put it down and read it rapidly.
Now, I plan to reread it again slowly. You will
get more out of this book than Dr. Grays "Mars/Venus"
books and the 100's of other books on relationships
between men and women".
Ellen
offers a very insightful and practical way to
achieve fulfilling relationships. This book is
available in audio tapes or paperback. As the
title describes, it gives you the tools to become
a better partner and reach a higher level of fulfillment
from short and long term relationships. We recommend
the audio tapes, they are easy to listen and understand.
We have tried it in our own relationships and
it works. If you are having troubles in a relationship
we highly recommend you buy a copy of Light His
Fire for your partner. It's less expensive if
you buy the set.
John Gray
helps you get over the devastation and loneliness
that comes with a breakup, divorce, or the loss
of a loved one. He offers gentle guidance, compassionate
wisdom, and healing practices that will help you
feel whole again. With warmth and insight, he
shows you the process of healing.
Whether you are trying to find "the old you" or defining
"the new you", life is too short and it should be
enjoyed. There is a lot of information available on
the web and navigating through it takes a lot of time.
We have researched to find the best resources for
you. These are just a few suggestions that we have
found helpful.
If you know of a way we can improve this site to
make your visit more productive or if you simply want
to send us a message, please Contact
Us. We would appreciate hearing from you.
Men's
libido involves a mixture of intimacy, sex drive,
sexual desire, arousal, and fantasies. Male sexual
dysfunction can come about from many sources such
as medication, depression, stress of modern life,
lack of time and hormonal imbalances. Sexual experience
for men falls into two distinct categories. The first
is a natural function of procreation and the byproduct
is a release of tension, an overall sense of relaxation
and a proof of manhood. This is an instinctive form
that most of us remember from the years prior to truly
falling in love or settling down in a long-term relationship.
The second and more powerful category comes from making
love to the one you love. This is a much higher level
of satisfaction that is not reached by simply having
sex. To a man, this is a way to express his inner
most feelings towards the partner that he loves. This
is one of the few times that you lay down your guard
and allow your pleasure to come from, and intermingle
with, the pleasuring of another. Once having experienced
this higher pleasure, the inability to find this level
of satisfaction can lead to low perception of self-worth,
lack of confidence, which in and of itself, causes
doubt as to ones ability to perform and can cause
depression.
